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David Tian, Ph.D., is a Brown University Certified Leadership & Performance Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (L3), devoted husband, proud father, and former university professor — helping high-achievers master love, leadership, and life decisions by blending emotional mastery, philosophical wisdom, and evidence-based relational methods.
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High achievers often discover too late that status, income, or influence can’t fix the ache they’ve been carrying since childhood. Emotional wounds don’t disappear when you power through them — they camouflage themselves as ambition, productivity, or perfectionism. In this post, I break down the neuroscience, the tragic research, and the real-life stories that reveal what actually heals us… and why presence matters more than any achievement.
Why Evil Seems to Win (And What to Do About It)
When corruption looks efficient and cruelty gets rewarded, despair feels logical. But psychology and history reveal a deeper pattern: most “evil” is unhealed pain masquerading as power. This piece breaks down why good people get burned, why wounded protectors become persecutors, and how to stay strong without losing compassion. Heart open. Eyes sharp.
Why Sexual Freedom Isn’t Immorality — It’s Integrity
For centuries, society equated repression with virtue and pleasure with sin. But what if honesty, consent, and autonomy aren’t moral loopholes — they’re moral virtues? This essay makes the philosophical and psychological case that authentic sexual freedom is not moral decay, but moral maturity.


